Unfortunately in a divorce, the time when you feel least capable of making good decisions is when you have to make them. There is a slice of time at the end of a marriage when you have to make the critical choice about how you will proceed with the dissolution.
During this slice of time, the choices that are made about the divorcing process will have a huge impact on you, your children and your relationship with your future ex-spouse for several years, and maybe a lifetime.
Don’t try to figure this out on your own. I can help you.