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Divorce Choices?
Unfortunately in a divorce, the time when you feel least capable of making good decisions is when you have to make them. There is a slice of time at the end of a marriage when you have to make the...
When to Proceed with a Divorce
When to proceed? Timing can mean everything to a divorce process, a point that I constantly emphasize to my clients. It is critical to honor and respect each other’s individual timing in moving...
A Timely Divorce
Even the decision of when to proceed with the divorce will create very different choices and outcomes. When a couple can communicate well enough at the time of breakup to make decisions together...
Are you the Leaver Or Leavee? Whose decision was it to end the marriage?
“Whose decision was it to end the marriage?” The person who makes the decision to end the divorce is often referred to as the “leaver.” The spouse who did not make the decision to end the marriage...
Tools for Your Divorce
Excerpt from my book Divorce Done Easier by Carol DelzerTools for the Journey of Divorce: Lao Tzu famously said, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.” I can’t take that step for...
Benefits of Cooperating During a Divorce
Benefits of Cooperating During a DivorceIf you want a divorce that is easier, less painful and more likely to set you and your family up positively for the future, you must understand that your...
Be Proactive and Response Able to Old Marriage Dynamics
During a marriage, couples learn to relate to one another and create their own particular relationship dynamic for the marriage. These dynamics can be blatant or subtle, positive or negative. We...
How to Avoid the Blame Game in Divorce
The Blame Game Challenge. One of the keys to becoming responsible and response-able is to stop the blame game. I discuss the blame game in my book Divorce Done Easier because it is so prevalent in...
Forgiveness is a Divorce Key
Forgiveness is a Divorce Key I can’t emphasize enough the importance—and magic—of forgiveness during the divorce process. At this point, forgiving your former spouse or yourself may still seem...
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